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Stop Treating Romance Writing Advice Like Law
Romance writers are drowning in rules. Some of them are useful. Some of them are fine in theory and disastrous in practice. And some of them sound smart enough that people repeat them without ever stopping to ask whether they’re actually helping the story on the page. I’ve learned—mostly the hard way—that writing gets worse…
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I Accidentally Wrote Book FOUR First… and Here’s What That Taught Me About Writing Romance
When I started drafting what I thought was my first romance novel, I truly believed I had everything under control. I had a strong outline, a clear plan, and a story I was excited to tell. I followed that outline scene by scene, and for a while, everything seemed perfectly aligned with the vision in…
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6 Books That Shaped How I Write Love Stories
Every writer has a few books that quietly carve their fingerprints into your creative DNA. You don’t always realize it at the time, you just finish a book, exhale, and think that did something to me. And then years later, you’re writing your own stories and see the echo of that line, that dynamic, that…
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Romance Tropes I Will Defend With My Whole Chest
Some people pretend they’re too sophisticated for certain romance tropes.I am not one of those people. I am proudly unhinged about the tropes I love, and today we’re talking about the ones I refuse to apologize for, even when they’re dramatic, chaotic, or blatantly unrealistic. (Especially when they’re unrealistic. Let me have my fun.) I’m…
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How I Wrote 50,000 Words With Zero Chill (Novel November Chaos Recap)
Or: Why my caffeine tolerance is now spiritually concerning. This month, I discovered something important about myself: I am not—absolutely not—a chill writer. Not even on my best day. I joined Novel November with the goal of writing 50,000 words, and instead of writing 50,000 words, I’ve actually written 85,243. Yes, really. No, I don’t…
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Writing My First Novel in My Second Language: Impostor Syndrome and Why I’m Doing It Anyway
I need to talk about something that’s been a huge part of this writing journey for me — something I almost didn’t share because it feels exposing. I’m writing my romance novel in English, and it’s not my first language. And before anyone says “but your English is great!” — thank you, but that’s not…
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My Romance Writing Process: How I Turn One Image Into a 50,000-Word Novel
Not everyone writes the same way, and that’s totally okay. Some people are “pantsers” — they write by the seat of their pants, discovering the story as they go. The thrill is in not knowing what happens next. Some people are “plotters” — they plan everything before they write a single word. They need a…
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I’m Writing My First Romance Novel in 30 Days: Why I’m Finally Starting with Novel November
Hi, I’m Jessica—and four days ago I started doing something that both excites and absolutely terrifies me. This November, I’m writing my first romance novel. Fifty thousand words in thirty days. No published work, no agent, no real idea if I’m any good at this—just me, my stories, and a cast of fictional people who…
